Im always apprehensive to get into a relationship because I feel like I can do so much better, or something better can come a long and I dont want to be tied down, plus this DJ thing simply put is really F***ing fun. Anyone else feel this way? A few girls are starting to get pissed at me because I tell them "I dont want to be tied down."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Afraid to get into a relationship?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I recently approached an austrailian girl in the park and turns out she so easy to talk to, we somehow ended up talking about relationships and she asked me if i was seeing anyone. I told her i enjoy being single and she gave me a look like she completely disapproved of it. I am afterall 29 years old but i am in no hurry to find a girl i want to settle down with. Nothing wrong with been free to meet as little or as many women, for sex, friendship or for dating.
Some people think its selfish to be single most of your life, esp when your having sex with multiple women with no strings attached. I don't think thats been selfish, its a choice of whatever makes you happy in life.
So bottom lines is, who cares if women get pissed if you prefer to not to get into a relationship, the only way to find the right girl is to date alot of them, true?
Some people think its selfish to be single most of your life, esp when your having sex with multiple women with no strings attached. I don't think thats been selfish, its a choice of whatever makes you happy in life.
So bottom lines is, who cares if women get pissed if you prefer to not to get into a relationship, the only way to find the right girl is to date alot of them, true?
It really depends what you call a relationship, too. The only time you should ever feel like you have to be monogamous is when you are married, or when you have told the woman that you are going to be exclusive.
You can still date multiple women, or be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with one and date others - so long as you are open about it and don't lie to cover it up. Relationships are about fun.
You can still date multiple women, or be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with one and date others - so long as you are open about it and don't lie to cover it up. Relationships are about fun.
DonGorgon
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relationships dont mean much except you are more obligated to spend money and care.. they dont guarantee more sex or loyalty
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Just do what our more practical female counterparts do.
Stay with your current chick until someone better comes along and then gradually when you've established the new girl is a secure branch and better than your current girl ditch her for the new one completing the branch swing.
Also never indicate to your current girl that you don't want to be tied down make it so for all that she knows you are happy with her.
That way she doesn't get the satisfaction of breaking up with you first nor does she get the ego boost that would go along with that.
Leave her hurting and she may just be prime pickings for you in the future should you come to want her back for any reason. :yes:
Stay with your current chick until someone better comes along and then gradually when you've established the new girl is a secure branch and better than your current girl ditch her for the new one completing the branch swing.
Also never indicate to your current girl that you don't want to be tied down make it so for all that she knows you are happy with her.
That way she doesn't get the satisfaction of breaking up with you first nor does she get the ego boost that would go along with that.
Leave her hurting and she may just be prime pickings for you in the future should you come to want her back for any reason. :yes:
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
kingy
Senior Don Juan
relationships can be fun too 90% of women are legitimately bi-sexual ;-)