"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Afraid of Sex?

itishe

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Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
Stop overanalyzing; it's a psychological killer. Clearly, she is interested in you; and it's also obvious she feels something about her ex-boyfriend. Personally, I think she still likes him; but, regardless, I would still **** her. You need the practice; who the **** cares what she thinks. Just make sure you enjoy it. Over time, you'll have a lot of sexual stamina.

Before I had sex for my first time, I was a little intimidated. But once I shoved my penis into her *****, it evaporated. In fact, I lasted for about one hour and a half, or more. I lost track of time. All I know is that I was in that room for three hours, heh. I didn't care about me lasting long, or finishing quickly; just enjoy it, while it lasts--you'll be fine.

I see Grade School, Junior High, and HIGH SCHOOL, as practice for the real deal-- College, and life beyond college (the work force).

So socialize now, pick up a study habit that works for you, and get sexually active so you know what you're doing in college--that's your key to success.

:box: Never give up. :box:

You can do it. :up:
 

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
It's just you are worrying too much about impressing the woman.

Kick back and act as if she has to impress you.

It will cure some of that anxiety.
 
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