"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Afraid of Sex?

itishe

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Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
Stop overanalyzing; it's a psychological killer. Clearly, she is interested in you; and it's also obvious she feels something about her ex-boyfriend. Personally, I think she still likes him; but, regardless, I would still **** her. You need the practice; who the **** cares what she thinks. Just make sure you enjoy it. Over time, you'll have a lot of sexual stamina.

Before I had sex for my first time, I was a little intimidated. But once I shoved my penis into her *****, it evaporated. In fact, I lasted for about one hour and a half, or more. I lost track of time. All I know is that I was in that room for three hours, heh. I didn't care about me lasting long, or finishing quickly; just enjoy it, while it lasts--you'll be fine.

I see Grade School, Junior High, and HIGH SCHOOL, as practice for the real deal-- College, and life beyond college (the work force).

So socialize now, pick up a study habit that works for you, and get sexually active so you know what you're doing in college--that's your key to success.

:box: Never give up. :box:

You can do it. :up:
 

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
It's just you are worrying too much about impressing the woman.

Kick back and act as if she has to impress you.

It will cure some of that anxiety.
 
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