"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Afraid of Sex?

itishe

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Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
Stop overanalyzing; it's a psychological killer. Clearly, she is interested in you; and it's also obvious she feels something about her ex-boyfriend. Personally, I think she still likes him; but, regardless, I would still **** her. You need the practice; who the **** cares what she thinks. Just make sure you enjoy it. Over time, you'll have a lot of sexual stamina.

Before I had sex for my first time, I was a little intimidated. But once I shoved my penis into her *****, it evaporated. In fact, I lasted for about one hour and a half, or more. I lost track of time. All I know is that I was in that room for three hours, heh. I didn't care about me lasting long, or finishing quickly; just enjoy it, while it lasts--you'll be fine.

I see Grade School, Junior High, and HIGH SCHOOL, as practice for the real deal-- College, and life beyond college (the work force).

So socialize now, pick up a study habit that works for you, and get sexually active so you know what you're doing in college--that's your key to success.

:box: Never give up. :box:

You can do it. :up:
 

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
It's just you are worrying too much about impressing the woman.

Kick back and act as if she has to impress you.

It will cure some of that anxiety.
 
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