"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Afraid of Sex?

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Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
Stop overanalyzing; it's a psychological killer. Clearly, she is interested in you; and it's also obvious she feels something about her ex-boyfriend. Personally, I think she still likes him; but, regardless, I would still **** her. You need the practice; who the **** cares what she thinks. Just make sure you enjoy it. Over time, you'll have a lot of sexual stamina.

Before I had sex for my first time, I was a little intimidated. But once I shoved my penis into her *****, it evaporated. In fact, I lasted for about one hour and a half, or more. I lost track of time. All I know is that I was in that room for three hours, heh. I didn't care about me lasting long, or finishing quickly; just enjoy it, while it lasts--you'll be fine.

I see Grade School, Junior High, and HIGH SCHOOL, as practice for the real deal-- College, and life beyond college (the work force).

So socialize now, pick up a study habit that works for you, and get sexually active so you know what you're doing in college--that's your key to success.

:box: Never give up. :box:

You can do it. :up:
 

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itishe said:
Tonight I was speaking with this girl whom I've been talking to quite a bit lately. The conversation got really sexual, dropping hints that she'd bang me tonight, it was awesome. But something inside me almost made me feel afraid. Idea came to my mind like, "Oh I wouldn't last long enough", etc.

I'm still a virgin but I've done some things with girls, etc.. Think of it as a sign I'm not ready yet or something?

Oh and just for a side note, she was telling me she hasn't done anything since October so I asked if it was with her ex-boyfriend she makes fun of and everyone else does. After I said this she sort of hurried up and had to go. Any idea what this was about, everything was rolling quickly and smoothly up until that point.
It's just you are worrying too much about impressing the woman.

Kick back and act as if she has to impress you.

It will cure some of that anxiety.
 
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