"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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afraid a girl might **** up my rep...

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One of my greatest fears at school is getting burned by girls who know a lot of people. The thing is that I don't want to settle for just one girl. I'm always looking for the better one. So say I do hook up with one of these ever so popular girls... and they tell all of their friends... what should I expect? How would they respond. Has anyone had any bad experiences with girls spreading your info?

Anyway, I tend to stay away from the drama and go after the ones who don't go to my school.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If that's your reason then go ahead, stay away from school. There's enough girls to go around everywhere else.
 

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Just be honest. Don't lie if you fully intend on dating other people.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now."

You only get into major problems if you intentionally lie and cheat etc..
 
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