"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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afraid a girl might **** up my rep...

chancer

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One of my greatest fears at school is getting burned by girls who know a lot of people. The thing is that I don't want to settle for just one girl. I'm always looking for the better one. So say I do hook up with one of these ever so popular girls... and they tell all of their friends... what should I expect? How would they respond. Has anyone had any bad experiences with girls spreading your info?

Anyway, I tend to stay away from the drama and go after the ones who don't go to my school.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If that's your reason then go ahead, stay away from school. There's enough girls to go around everywhere else.
 

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Just be honest. Don't lie if you fully intend on dating other people.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now."

You only get into major problems if you intentionally lie and cheat etc..
 
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