"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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afraid a girl might **** up my rep...

chancer

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One of my greatest fears at school is getting burned by girls who know a lot of people. The thing is that I don't want to settle for just one girl. I'm always looking for the better one. So say I do hook up with one of these ever so popular girls... and they tell all of their friends... what should I expect? How would they respond. Has anyone had any bad experiences with girls spreading your info?

Anyway, I tend to stay away from the drama and go after the ones who don't go to my school.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If that's your reason then go ahead, stay away from school. There's enough girls to go around everywhere else.
 

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Just be honest. Don't lie if you fully intend on dating other people.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now."

You only get into major problems if you intentionally lie and cheat etc..
 
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