"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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afraid a girl might **** up my rep...

chancer

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One of my greatest fears at school is getting burned by girls who know a lot of people. The thing is that I don't want to settle for just one girl. I'm always looking for the better one. So say I do hook up with one of these ever so popular girls... and they tell all of their friends... what should I expect? How would they respond. Has anyone had any bad experiences with girls spreading your info?

Anyway, I tend to stay away from the drama and go after the ones who don't go to my school.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If that's your reason then go ahead, stay away from school. There's enough girls to go around everywhere else.
 

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Just be honest. Don't lie if you fully intend on dating other people.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now."

You only get into major problems if you intentionally lie and cheat etc..
 
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