"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Affirmations

kabatura

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I have read about positive affirmations and people tend to think pretty highly of them. I looked around on the board for stuff about affirmations and found some info but not as much as I wanted. I have read about written affirmations and from reading on here it seems that people use spoken affirmations, and maybe affirmations while in a situation. At the present I am looking to get rid of some fear I have. I can attract girls just fine, I used to spend a lot of time at this site many years ago which changed my overall attitude around girls but I havent really been pursuing anything ladywise for the past couple of years so I have gotten rusty. Primarily in the area of hesitation. I was with a girl the other night who I had plans to make some sort of move with and I just kept telling myself it was a bad time, or any other excuse. So I think affirmations could aid in changing my way of thinking and acting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Google that sh*t. Quotes about perception, attitude, failure...the whole 9.
 

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Affirmations can be so cool, like reprogramming yourself. It seems like it would be best with some meditation. I don't do affirmations nearly enough.
If you can't find enough about it here, why don't you do some research, and write an article for here?
 

kabatura

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I have found, and I know there is a ton of stuff online but I am looking for some feedback on how it has worked for people and what specifically they do. I will find out what has worked for people and what I think will work best for me and post how it works out.
 

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I use affirmations with visualiation.


I also do a lot of postive self talk.

I also use EFT.

I do a daily mantra.

And I do daily meditation as well.

I also listen to some trance/hypnotic messages as well.

If I were you I would concentrate on EFT for right now. Check out this site:
http://www.innergametapping.com/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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