I have read about positive affirmations and people tend to think pretty highly of them. I looked around on the board for stuff about affirmations and found some info but not as much as I wanted. I have read about written affirmations and from reading on here it seems that people use spoken affirmations, and maybe affirmations while in a situation. At the present I am looking to get rid of some fear I have. I can attract girls just fine, I used to spend a lot of time at this site many years ago which changed my overall attitude around girls but I havent really been pursuing anything ladywise for the past couple of years so I have gotten rusty. Primarily in the area of hesitation. I was with a girl the other night who I had plans to make some sort of move with and I just kept telling myself it was a bad time, or any other excuse. So I think affirmations could aid in changing my way of thinking and acting.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Affirmations
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