"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Affirmations

kabatura

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I have read about positive affirmations and people tend to think pretty highly of them. I looked around on the board for stuff about affirmations and found some info but not as much as I wanted. I have read about written affirmations and from reading on here it seems that people use spoken affirmations, and maybe affirmations while in a situation. At the present I am looking to get rid of some fear I have. I can attract girls just fine, I used to spend a lot of time at this site many years ago which changed my overall attitude around girls but I havent really been pursuing anything ladywise for the past couple of years so I have gotten rusty. Primarily in the area of hesitation. I was with a girl the other night who I had plans to make some sort of move with and I just kept telling myself it was a bad time, or any other excuse. So I think affirmations could aid in changing my way of thinking and acting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Google that sh*t. Quotes about perception, attitude, failure...the whole 9.
 

PrinceBeavis

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Affirmations can be so cool, like reprogramming yourself. It seems like it would be best with some meditation. I don't do affirmations nearly enough.
If you can't find enough about it here, why don't you do some research, and write an article for here?
 

kabatura

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I have found, and I know there is a ton of stuff online but I am looking for some feedback on how it has worked for people and what specifically they do. I will find out what has worked for people and what I think will work best for me and post how it works out.
 

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I use affirmations with visualiation.


I also do a lot of postive self talk.

I also use EFT.

I do a daily mantra.

And I do daily meditation as well.

I also listen to some trance/hypnotic messages as well.

If I were you I would concentrate on EFT for right now. Check out this site:
http://www.innergametapping.com/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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