“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Basically it's not smart to view yourself, as a beginning Don Juan, as an "average frustrated chump".

The labels you accept for yourself determine the course of your evolution. If you believe you ARE an AFC, that's what you'll become more of.

It's much saner to view yourself as a 'DJ-to-be'. It's also more compassionate towards the rest of the world, populated by men who will all one day (if you believe in reincarnation and/or cultural progress) become high quality men.

When you join this forum, you get promoted to a "Don Juan". You don't get demoted to an "AFC". That is reminiscent of this truth.

I feel we should really drop this terminology altogether. Looking at yourself or others as an AFC is really not helpful. You instantly feel more compassionate towards the scores of poor men out there when you see them as Don Juan's to be. After all, this is really a movement towards becoming better men. Some men have awoken to this call. Many have not. But one day, all will have.

We are all becoming.

be·com·ing adjective \-ˈkə-miŋ\
: causing someone to look attractive : having a flattering or attractive effect
: suitable or appropriate for a particular person or in a certain situation
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dryden said:
Basically it's not smart to view yourself, as a beginning Don Juan, as an "average frustrated chump".

The labels you accept for yourself determine the course of your evolution. If you believe you ARE an AFC, that's what you'll become more of.

It's much saner to view yourself as a 'DJ-to-be'. It's also more compassionate towards the rest of the world, populated by men who will all one day (if you believe in reincarnation and/or cultural progress) become high quality men.

When you join this forum, you get promoted to a "Don Juan". You don't get demoted to an "AFC". That is reminiscent of this truth.

I feel we should really drop this terminology altogether. Looking at yourself or others as an AFC is really not helpful. You instantly feel more compassionate towards the scores of poor men out there when you see them as Don Juan's to be. After all, this is really a movement towards becoming better men. Some men have awoken to this call. Many have not. But one day, all will have.

We are all becoming.

be·com·ing adjective \-ˈkə-miŋ\
: causing someone to look attractive : having a flattering or attractive effect
: suitable or appropriate for a particular person or in a certain situation
Dryden is an AFC. :D

The Simple Man is a Don Juan. :D

Am I doing it right?
 

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Dryden said:
When you join this forum, you get promoted to a "Don Juan". You don't get demoted to an "AFC". That is reminiscent of this truth.
There is not much more to say! What a brilliant insight man!

Absolutely spot on! Congratulations, and thank you for this!
 

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The Simple Man said:
Dryden is an AFC. :D

The Simple Man is a Don Juan. :D

Am I doing it right?
:D

Almost there! :p

Lotus Effect said:
There is not much more to say! What a brilliant insight man!

Absolutely spot on! Congratulations, and thank you for this!
Thanks!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is a good mindset, but I think it needs to be taken even further.

Not only should men not view themselves as AFC's but they should also lower their view of women. Half the problems men face come from over-inflating a woman's value.. much more so than under stating their own value.

Many men will see themselves as "normal" then view any woman over a HB7 as a "prize" they must "improve themselves" to win. That's a loser mindset right there --> The idea that you are flawed by default while women are perfect by default. It doesn't help that all the desperate faggots who beg for female approval only inflate a woman's ego MORE. Thus creating a situation where most men don't feel "worthy" of most women. Its f*cking stupid.

The pedestal continues to be the biggest problem for modern men. If the average HB9 has a value of 10 bucks.. most men see her as having a value of 50 bucks. This needs to stop and in needs to stop immediately.
 
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