"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AFC stampede - funny thread

Radharc

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Just thought I would share the link to this funny thread on enotale concerning the eternal debate: Nice guys vs. Jerks.

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=353703

It´s like coming back to a country where you used to live but now feels like a different planet. Even though there are some guys there that look like they are beggining to see the light.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
 

Radharc

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Huffman said:
Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
It´s further down, when you get the guys who complaint and are really bitter about the way things work in the real world, and refuse to think differently, even though there is some sound advice.
 
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