"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AFC stampede - funny thread

Radharc

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Just thought I would share the link to this funny thread on enotale concerning the eternal debate: Nice guys vs. Jerks.

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=353703

It´s like coming back to a country where you used to live but now feels like a different planet. Even though there are some guys there that look like they are beggining to see the light.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
 

Radharc

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Huffman said:
Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
It´s further down, when you get the guys who complaint and are really bitter about the way things work in the real world, and refuse to think differently, even though there is some sound advice.
 
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