"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just thought I would share the link to this funny thread on enotale concerning the eternal debate: Nice guys vs. Jerks.

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=353703

It´s like coming back to a country where you used to live but now feels like a different planet. Even though there are some guys there that look like they are beggining to see the light.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
 
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Huffman said:
Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
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It´s further down, when you get the guys who complaint and are really bitter about the way things work in the real world, and refuse to think differently, even though there is some sound advice.
 
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