"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AFC stampede - funny thread

Radharc

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Just thought I would share the link to this funny thread on enotale concerning the eternal debate: Nice guys vs. Jerks.

http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=353703

It´s like coming back to a country where you used to live but now feels like a different planet. Even though there are some guys there that look like they are beggining to see the light.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
 

Radharc

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Huffman said:
Only read the first page, and I don't see the problem? The OP is a bit confused, but everybody is giving sound advice, no?
Their definition of "nice guy" might be a bit off, but I would agree with most of their answers.
It´s further down, when you get the guys who complaint and are really bitter about the way things work in the real world, and refuse to think differently, even though there is some sound advice.
 
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