"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AFC Friends to Lying Pansies

Desdinova

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Man, this 5hit just pisses me off. I have a good friend whom I enjoyed hanging out with.... until he got a GF. Now, his GF doesn't stop him from going out to have fun with me, but he has made a new decision. He wrote this to me after I invited him out like I usually do:

"I never go to (location) anymore really. I'm just not into it like i used to
be."

What a fvcking lying bastard. Just makes me want to slap him across the face. Although I have cut back on my solo outings since I got into a LTR, I didn't give them up. Those outings are important to me, and I can embrace something I love to do. Fvck him, I have no problem going alone.

Why do guys have to hand over their lives and priceless nutsack to prove their "love"? I'm putting bets on him going right back to what he loves to do right after she dumps his ass. She's confided in me that she's had just about enough of him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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I feel your pain man.. sometimes you gotta let people see things the hard way. Some people never see it, no matter how bad you want them to
 

Skilla_Staz

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I agree man. I find myself doin' that stuff occasionally too, though. :-/
 
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