"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AFC Friends to Lying Pansies

Desdinova

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Man, this 5hit just pisses me off. I have a good friend whom I enjoyed hanging out with.... until he got a GF. Now, his GF doesn't stop him from going out to have fun with me, but he has made a new decision. He wrote this to me after I invited him out like I usually do:

"I never go to (location) anymore really. I'm just not into it like i used to
be."

What a fvcking lying bastard. Just makes me want to slap him across the face. Although I have cut back on my solo outings since I got into a LTR, I didn't give them up. Those outings are important to me, and I can embrace something I love to do. Fvck him, I have no problem going alone.

Why do guys have to hand over their lives and priceless nutsack to prove their "love"? I'm putting bets on him going right back to what he loves to do right after she dumps his ass. She's confided in me that she's had just about enough of him.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker

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I feel your pain man.. sometimes you gotta let people see things the hard way. Some people never see it, no matter how bad you want them to
 

Skilla_Staz

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I agree man. I find myself doin' that stuff occasionally too, though. :-/
 
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