"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AFC Friends to Lying Pansies

Desdinova

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Man, this 5hit just pisses me off. I have a good friend whom I enjoyed hanging out with.... until he got a GF. Now, his GF doesn't stop him from going out to have fun with me, but he has made a new decision. He wrote this to me after I invited him out like I usually do:

"I never go to (location) anymore really. I'm just not into it like i used to
be."

What a fvcking lying bastard. Just makes me want to slap him across the face. Although I have cut back on my solo outings since I got into a LTR, I didn't give them up. Those outings are important to me, and I can embrace something I love to do. Fvck him, I have no problem going alone.

Why do guys have to hand over their lives and priceless nutsack to prove their "love"? I'm putting bets on him going right back to what he loves to do right after she dumps his ass. She's confided in me that she's had just about enough of him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backbreaker

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I feel your pain man.. sometimes you gotta let people see things the hard way. Some people never see it, no matter how bad you want them to
 

Skilla_Staz

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I agree man. I find myself doin' that stuff occasionally too, though. :-/
 
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