Once again i observed silimar behavior where the girl falls for a guy she's not that into only because he smooches her with hugs and spends all his time with her. On one hand the dude knew how to start making moves, but then again he kept spending all his time with her. I suppose i'm somehow confused as i know i would never be able to waste all my time like that -- then again maybe it's why i'm still single. It appears that to get most girls you have to have mix of AFC/DJ qualities. On one hand not to be afraid to show emotions and making physical moves on teh other you still have to be AFC with "i'm not leaving you even for a moment" stuff.
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AFC/DJ behavior
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
listen being a DJ isnt about not showing affection or "SMOOCHING"
its about keeping ur Cajones
its about keeping ur Cajones
Maybe because they like a man who is not a cold turned off person who spends all his time wondering if his behaviour was DJ. DJ is whatever you make it too, when you become more natural you will discover you lean back more towards the AFC-behaviour, but you still respect yourself and don't let people walk over you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.