PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
I know that from time to time even the strongest of us may be prone to AFC behavior. But what kinda percentage of guys actually do qualify as AFC? In other words how prevalent is this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
+1 right there mah manBigJimbo said:Almost all of America. When you start focusing on how you are too old to date certain ages of girls you are an American. When you like mothers you are an American. When you change diapers on a daily basis you are an American. When your wife doesn't cook for you, you are an American. When the apex of your life was college you are an American. Need I go on?
this is so gay.r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does that mean women are only really attracted to 0.000001% of the men?99.999999% are AFCs
I don't think that is true. Maybe the alpha just doesn't want to bother with looking at you, or nodding, or interacting with you at all. Maybe he has other things on his mind.Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
Interesting theory. But you could make the argument that there is more social conditioning in the country. People in the country tend to be more conservative and traditional than people in the city. They are more rigid and less accepting of many different things. The countryside is far more homogeneous and less diverse than the city i.e. more people are doing the same thing.Aazman said:I have a theory that the number of AFCs is higher in the city.
My thinking is: more media, more RNB music= more social conditioning for males.
In the country, less media. Less focus on mainstream music. I.e less social conditioning.
Also I have seen more "players" about in the country than in the city. Plus its all about being "one" with nature.
PS. i do like RNB but i just ignore the lyrics.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.