PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
I know that from time to time even the strongest of us may be prone to AFC behavior. But what kinda percentage of guys actually do qualify as AFC? In other words how prevalent is this?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
+1 right there mah manBigJimbo said:Almost all of America. When you start focusing on how you are too old to date certain ages of girls you are an American. When you like mothers you are an American. When you change diapers on a daily basis you are an American. When your wife doesn't cook for you, you are an American. When the apex of your life was college you are an American. Need I go on?
this is so gay.r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Does that mean women are only really attracted to 0.000001% of the men?99.999999% are AFCs
I don't think that is true. Maybe the alpha just doesn't want to bother with looking at you, or nodding, or interacting with you at all. Maybe he has other things on his mind.Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
r0cky said:Walk down the street and make eye contact with every male you see. The ones that hold eye contact and nod are the alphas, the ones that look away are AFCs.
My theory is that about 80% of males are AFCs
Interesting theory. But you could make the argument that there is more social conditioning in the country. People in the country tend to be more conservative and traditional than people in the city. They are more rigid and less accepting of many different things. The countryside is far more homogeneous and less diverse than the city i.e. more people are doing the same thing.Aazman said:I have a theory that the number of AFCs is higher in the city.
My thinking is: more media, more RNB music= more social conditioning for males.
In the country, less media. Less focus on mainstream music. I.e less social conditioning.
Also I have seen more "players" about in the country than in the city. Plus its all about being "one" with nature.
PS. i do like RNB but i just ignore the lyrics.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.