"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC Bad Date (video)

realsmoothie

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Second that.

These shows aren't "scripted", or they'd be better. But the producers DO tell the people on the show to play things up for the camera.

She is definitely a cow, though. You can tell right away. Cute, though. Too bad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cod3r

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I would have enjoyed my food or if she (as she did) became increasingly disrespectful and intolerable, just got up and left or switched tables if I wasn't done my food. No need to bicker with a girl that could hardly be worthy to hold my d*ck in the morning for my daily piss...

It's not about passing tests, she had bitter feelings for him and just abused him. He didn't want her, she didn't want him. Wasn't about 'game' she just wanted to bully and he did fine except the food thing I wouldn't have let it get to that point. I would have been gone after the 'loser shelter' comment, that was kind of funny tho, who says something like that to another person ?


-Cod3r
 

Freddy1

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Distant Light said:
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.

Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."

or

Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."

Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
Good responses! :up:

Any of us can end up in a dating situation like that guy. Its good to know how to respond to b*tch behaviour. At least now I will be prepared.
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badgm's57

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what a ***** ,*****, *****

only things she's good for is getting more drunk,and go rape the **** out of her.
 

Faca

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This was funny actually, the female jerk :crackup: ...

The guy handle it pretty well, could have been more agressive.. just to show that he doesn't take **** from her. I would have said that's waste of my time, and should have left that table earlier than she did.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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R3N3G4D3

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BuckwildNYC said:
... There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
I heard a different one. "Never agrue with fools because they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience."

As far as the situation is concerned, the guy kept his cool, I like that. But trying to talk to her using logic was a dumb move (A. she's drunk, B. she'd be too dumb for it even sober anyway, C. it's pointless).
 

dietzcoi

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Since I drink I probably would have gotten drunk with her and actually had some fun..

The problem here is a drinking "ho" party girl with a basically boring guy. Lets face it the guy dresses and looks boring.. doesn't even eat meat.

Obviously a mismatch from the start. She wanted an Alpha male party animal frat boy type and got Mr. Animal Rights/Teetotaller type.

But this does not excuse her behaviour, she obviously needs a good spanking! :)

Dietzcoi
 

Weak_Game

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I would have ended up f-closing her by the end of the date... she would have been too easy to game.

She wanted someone to put her in her place. She would have loved it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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