"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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realsmoothie

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Second that.

These shows aren't "scripted", or they'd be better. But the producers DO tell the people on the show to play things up for the camera.

She is definitely a cow, though. You can tell right away. Cute, though. Too bad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cod3r

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I would have enjoyed my food or if she (as she did) became increasingly disrespectful and intolerable, just got up and left or switched tables if I wasn't done my food. No need to bicker with a girl that could hardly be worthy to hold my d*ck in the morning for my daily piss...

It's not about passing tests, she had bitter feelings for him and just abused him. He didn't want her, she didn't want him. Wasn't about 'game' she just wanted to bully and he did fine except the food thing I wouldn't have let it get to that point. I would have been gone after the 'loser shelter' comment, that was kind of funny tho, who says something like that to another person ?


-Cod3r
 

Freddy1

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Distant Light said:
I'm not sure what he did before the video started but I would have cut that thread off and would have got her laughing. He fuvked it up for himself by logically trying to explain stuff to her. I would have maybe agreed with her about the loser shelter and did some form of roleplaying.

Her: "I think you should live in a loser shelter"
Me: "wow hold up, i've only known you for xyz and already you're trying to bring me back to you're shelter, I need trust and comfort first."

or

Me: "How did you know. You've been stalking me, yep You've been sitting on my tree and watching me shower. You're the girl who keeps blowing up myself."

Man he could have done anything she threw test after test at that guy and he was just sitting there all serious and ****, what man isn't down for a food fight.
Good responses! :up:

Any of us can end up in a dating situation like that guy. Its good to know how to respond to b*tch behaviour. At least now I will be prepared.
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badgm's57

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what a ***** ,*****, *****

only things she's good for is getting more drunk,and go rape the **** out of her.
 

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This was funny actually, the female jerk :crackup: ...

The guy handle it pretty well, could have been more agressive.. just to show that he doesn't take **** from her. I would have said that's waste of my time, and should have left that table earlier than she did.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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R3N3G4D3

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BuckwildNYC said:
... There's a saying "never argue with fools because from a distance, no one can tell the difference."
I heard a different one. "Never agrue with fools because they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience."

As far as the situation is concerned, the guy kept his cool, I like that. But trying to talk to her using logic was a dumb move (A. she's drunk, B. she'd be too dumb for it even sober anyway, C. it's pointless).
 

dietzcoi

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Since I drink I probably would have gotten drunk with her and actually had some fun..

The problem here is a drinking "ho" party girl with a basically boring guy. Lets face it the guy dresses and looks boring.. doesn't even eat meat.

Obviously a mismatch from the start. She wanted an Alpha male party animal frat boy type and got Mr. Animal Rights/Teetotaller type.

But this does not excuse her behaviour, she obviously needs a good spanking! :)

Dietzcoi
 

Weak_Game

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I would have ended up f-closing her by the end of the date... she would have been too easy to game.

She wanted someone to put her in her place. She would have loved it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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