"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AFC and still get laid? (story)

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Hey,

A quick background: I have multiple girls im working but there's this one girl that i have one-i-tis for only when im around her.. we see eachother 3 or 4 times a week and im a complete AFC around her.. and her alone.. not with any other girl.. this one just makes me melt.

Now, the problem is when i met her she had a boyfriend.. subsiquently they broke up, and she got another boyfriend (skipping me entirely) now the funny thing is, we have sex, we fool around but the thing is im a complete AFC around her and there's NOTHING i can do about it..

so i think that is why she doesnt see me as boyfriend material even though i have so much going for me.. im done school, i work and make about 5x what an average person my age makes, i can give her the world... but once agian it proves that AFC's finish last in the bigger scheme of things.. now why would she fool around with me if she has other and better things going for her? i just dont understand this girl..

if i had been friendzoned i would be getting NO action from her.. i guess if i want something more then just this twisted relationship we have, i have to cut her off and work on my other girls..

willing to listen to suggestions.... and thanks in advance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Next her. You're nothing to her, you just happened to be AFC'd by a sl*t. Do you buy her stuff? Give her money? Could be reasons why she keeps you around.

Read the DJ Bible. So many guys come her wanting to know how to un-AFC themselves. It doesn't work that way. You've already blow it with this chick. She will never take you seriously.
 
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Pappadapolis said:
Next her. You're nothing to her, you just happened to be AFC'd by a sl*t. Do you buy her stuff? Give her money? Could be reasons why she keeps you around.

Read the DJ Bible. So many guys come her wanting to know how to un-AFC themselves. It doesn't work that way. You've already blow it with this chick. She will never take you seriously.
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bro, i've read the bible, and im not afc with any other girl..

just this one.. and yeah you are right... i dont give her money, i buy her things for her little things for her birthday and xmas and thats about all... but i agree with you that i blew it with this one... lets see how well she lasts without me.. heh..

thx, and more advice is appreciated... im not here to learn how to un-afc myself btw, i went through that stage already and i have read the bible and it helped me out a lot about 2 years ago when i first came on this site.
 
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what's wrong with having a FB?
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its all in what you want out of a relationship, and i want more then just being FB's... heh..

i can have sex with a number of other girls.. thats not the issue...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey,

A quick background: I have multiple girls im working but there's this one girl that i have one-i-tis for only when im around her.. we see eachother 3 or 4 times a week and im a complete AFC around her.. and her alone.. not with any other girl.. this one just makes me melt.

Now, the problem is when i met her she had a boyfriend.. subsiquently they broke up, and she got another boyfriend (skipping me entirely) now the funny thing is, we have sex, we fool around but the thing is im a complete AFC around her and there's NOTHING i can do about it..

so i think that is why she doesnt see me as boyfriend material even though i have so much going for me.. im done school, i work and make about 5x what an average person my age makes, i can give her the world... but once agian it proves that AFC's finish last in the bigger scheme of things.. now why would she fool around with me if she has other and better things going for her? i just dont understand this girl..

if i had been friendzoned i would be getting NO action from her.. i guess if i want something more then just this twisted relationship we have, i have to cut her off and work on my other girls..

willing to listen to suggestions.... and thanks in advance.
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Yeah, you can be an AFC and get laid. Being NOT AFC improves your odds of getting a quality lay though.
 
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