"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFC and still get laid? (story)

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Hey,

A quick background: I have multiple girls im working but there's this one girl that i have one-i-tis for only when im around her.. we see eachother 3 or 4 times a week and im a complete AFC around her.. and her alone.. not with any other girl.. this one just makes me melt.

Now, the problem is when i met her she had a boyfriend.. subsiquently they broke up, and she got another boyfriend (skipping me entirely) now the funny thing is, we have sex, we fool around but the thing is im a complete AFC around her and there's NOTHING i can do about it..

so i think that is why she doesnt see me as boyfriend material even though i have so much going for me.. im done school, i work and make about 5x what an average person my age makes, i can give her the world... but once agian it proves that AFC's finish last in the bigger scheme of things.. now why would she fool around with me if she has other and better things going for her? i just dont understand this girl..

if i had been friendzoned i would be getting NO action from her.. i guess if i want something more then just this twisted relationship we have, i have to cut her off and work on my other girls..

willing to listen to suggestions.... and thanks in advance.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Next her. You're nothing to her, you just happened to be AFC'd by a sl*t. Do you buy her stuff? Give her money? Could be reasons why she keeps you around.

Read the DJ Bible. So many guys come her wanting to know how to un-AFC themselves. It doesn't work that way. You've already blow it with this chick. She will never take you seriously.
 
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Next her. You're nothing to her, you just happened to be AFC'd by a sl*t. Do you buy her stuff? Give her money? Could be reasons why she keeps you around.

Read the DJ Bible. So many guys come her wanting to know how to un-AFC themselves. It doesn't work that way. You've already blow it with this chick. She will never take you seriously.
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bro, i've read the bible, and im not afc with any other girl..

just this one.. and yeah you are right... i dont give her money, i buy her things for her little things for her birthday and xmas and thats about all... but i agree with you that i blew it with this one... lets see how well she lasts without me.. heh..

thx, and more advice is appreciated... im not here to learn how to un-afc myself btw, i went through that stage already and i have read the bible and it helped me out a lot about 2 years ago when i first came on this site.
 
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what's wrong with having a FB?
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its all in what you want out of a relationship, and i want more then just being FB's... heh..

i can have sex with a number of other girls.. thats not the issue...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey,

A quick background: I have multiple girls im working but there's this one girl that i have one-i-tis for only when im around her.. we see eachother 3 or 4 times a week and im a complete AFC around her.. and her alone.. not with any other girl.. this one just makes me melt.

Now, the problem is when i met her she had a boyfriend.. subsiquently they broke up, and she got another boyfriend (skipping me entirely) now the funny thing is, we have sex, we fool around but the thing is im a complete AFC around her and there's NOTHING i can do about it..

so i think that is why she doesnt see me as boyfriend material even though i have so much going for me.. im done school, i work and make about 5x what an average person my age makes, i can give her the world... but once agian it proves that AFC's finish last in the bigger scheme of things.. now why would she fool around with me if she has other and better things going for her? i just dont understand this girl..

if i had been friendzoned i would be getting NO action from her.. i guess if i want something more then just this twisted relationship we have, i have to cut her off and work on my other girls..

willing to listen to suggestions.... and thanks in advance.
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Yeah, you can be an AFC and get laid. Being NOT AFC improves your odds of getting a quality lay though.
 
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