"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need some advice here guys. Im 17, Im a lean guy 5'8 and 142 lbs i dont remember my body fat % but it has been really low forever. Im currently lifting weights and trying to gain around 10-20 lbs but I'm also parcticing for long distance track which means that I run around 4-5 miles 5 days a week and the other 2 days I jump rope. I read that alot of cardio burns muscle too.

So is it possible to gain muscle mass with so much cardio and still not lose my speed?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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if you're practicing for distance running, stick with that. you won't be able to add much mass -- lift once or twice a week if you like, and yank the jump rope unless it's part of your training. you'll probably do better lifting in the offseason and running a bit less then.
 

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yeah listen to throttle no point in trying to add muscle with all the running you do
 

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Thanks for the reply
but what if I still lift... (I have for the past 6 weeks and I see results) would I still gain mass just slower??
Cause i dont want to waste my time, but I can compromise I dont have to gain 5 pounds in a month, 2-3 would be fine too.
 

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if it's working for you, go for it. make sure the weights keep moving up (ignore how much weight you gain, this is unreliable), and make sure you're timing yourself when you run. if either one starts to move backwards, you probably either need to eat and/or rest more.

BTW--contrary to your initial impression, cardio doesn't "burn muscle" at least not with the results you fear. a great explanation (and terrible background graphic):

http://www.oaktrees.org/fitness/burnMuscle2.html

let's face it, if you want to run long distances competitively you're going to be relatively skinny. lifting isn't a waste of time--esp. if you're seeing results--but you're talking about working at the margins.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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