"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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advise on 3 females plz.

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keep in mind, im 16 and aint never had a girlfriend before but i am not a virgin

the first one sits next to me in science class, i tried talkin to her but we dont have nothing in common, when i ask her a question for the sake of a conversation she gives me a quick answer and it ends there, so we end up with an awkwards silence

the 2nd one, i get kisses on the cheeks from her but shes got me in the buddy zone and though i tried i dont know how to get out of it

3rd one, we shared much in common, we laughed and joke around and before i knew it she was telling me about boyz she likes and wanna go with, it got me pissed so i never talked to her again, but i cant help but notice her.

i just need a lil advise on what i can do to get each of these girls and which one i should go for?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
 
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penkitten said:
go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
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ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
 
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wavejams007 said:
ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
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got a little busy with the wedding and honeymoon for a while, then had a kidney stone. but now im back :)
 
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