"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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advise on 3 females plz.

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keep in mind, im 16 and aint never had a girlfriend before but i am not a virgin

the first one sits next to me in science class, i tried talkin to her but we dont have nothing in common, when i ask her a question for the sake of a conversation she gives me a quick answer and it ends there, so we end up with an awkwards silence

the 2nd one, i get kisses on the cheeks from her but shes got me in the buddy zone and though i tried i dont know how to get out of it

3rd one, we shared much in common, we laughed and joke around and before i knew it she was telling me about boyz she likes and wanna go with, it got me pissed so i never talked to her again, but i cant help but notice her.

i just need a lil advise on what i can do to get each of these girls and which one i should go for?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
 
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penkitten said:
go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
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ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
 
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wavejams007 said:
ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
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got a little busy with the wedding and honeymoon for a while, then had a kidney stone. but now im back :)
 
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