"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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advise on 3 females plz.

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keep in mind, im 16 and aint never had a girlfriend before but i am not a virgin

the first one sits next to me in science class, i tried talkin to her but we dont have nothing in common, when i ask her a question for the sake of a conversation she gives me a quick answer and it ends there, so we end up with an awkwards silence

the 2nd one, i get kisses on the cheeks from her but shes got me in the buddy zone and though i tried i dont know how to get out of it

3rd one, we shared much in common, we laughed and joke around and before i knew it she was telling me about boyz she likes and wanna go with, it got me pissed so i never talked to her again, but i cant help but notice her.

i just need a lil advise on what i can do to get each of these girls and which one i should go for?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
 
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penkitten said:
go for #3
you have more in common and seem to have the hots for her.
i cant be sure if she told you about other guys to get in her "friend zone" or to make you jealous enough to ask her out before she gets taken.
you have to figure it out and decide what to do.
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ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
 
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wavejams007 said:
ditto.

hey Penkitten, btw! long time since I have seen one of your posts, altho I have been gone a while.
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got a little busy with the wedding and honeymoon for a while, then had a kidney stone. but now im back :)
 
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