Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Advices on moving on

Ambition Now

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Hi everybody, ive been dating a girl for about 1 year, but she is not my girlfriend, i date other girls and she dates other guys but friendship was always good.
Recently she started lose some interest, but always trying to keep the friendship, ive acted a little passive in some situations ive got pissed with her in the past (nothing too serious), but now i am becoming everytime more pissed with her with every little thing she does (passive agressive problem...).
I feel like i need to move on, since sex slowing down and she is losing interest, but she is always working to keep the friendship.
I will move on for sure, but dont know how to do it, do you guys think i should keep the friendship? I feel its kind of hard because a have some feelings for her (not in an oneitis level, but i do).
Whats is the best way to do it? Tell her i am moving on and quit fiendship too or just move on and dont say anything (ive tried it before, but she keeps calling me and saying i am acting distant and weird)?
Thank you
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AKA FLEX

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Just start dating/banging other chicks. If she whines about you being "distant," tell her you've got a life to live that doesn't revolve around her. At that point she'll either commit to making you her #1 priority or she'll move on too. Either way, it's a better situation than where you're at right now.
 

Ambition Now

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Yes, thats what i am doing now, but the problem is that she does not makes me her #1 priority, neither move on...
Ive tried to LJBF her, but didnt worked right, we came back having sex some time after that.
The problem is that she is an attention wh0re, she is losing interest in me but dont want to lose my attention.
Do you think i should say to her f*ck herself and stop f*ckin calling me?
 

WC2

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Do not keep this BS friendship. It's not a real friendship as any experienced man will tell you. Real friendships consist of those who tell you the honest truth no matter how you'll react. Her "friendship" with you is a huge lie. She wants to keep you around as a "friend" just in case she doesn't find something better.

At this point, you have 2 options. Buy into her ridiculous proposal at more friendship and less sex, or just stop contacting her.

Stop contacting her.

This will not only help you get over this woman quicker, but it will also give you the chance to start talking to others. Chances are she will be a little upset and start inching back towards you, although this is not the goal! The goal is to rebuild yourself into a single sturdy male. This is why she will come back. And by this time, hopefully you will be the the one telling her that you just "want to be friends", because after all this girl threw you out like trash when you were down; no reason you shouldn't do the same to her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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