"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advices on moving on

Ambition Now

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Hi everybody, ive been dating a girl for about 1 year, but she is not my girlfriend, i date other girls and she dates other guys but friendship was always good.
Recently she started lose some interest, but always trying to keep the friendship, ive acted a little passive in some situations ive got pissed with her in the past (nothing too serious), but now i am becoming everytime more pissed with her with every little thing she does (passive agressive problem...).
I feel like i need to move on, since sex slowing down and she is losing interest, but she is always working to keep the friendship.
I will move on for sure, but dont know how to do it, do you guys think i should keep the friendship? I feel its kind of hard because a have some feelings for her (not in an oneitis level, but i do).
Whats is the best way to do it? Tell her i am moving on and quit fiendship too or just move on and dont say anything (ive tried it before, but she keeps calling me and saying i am acting distant and weird)?
Thank you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AKA FLEX

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Just start dating/banging other chicks. If she whines about you being "distant," tell her you've got a life to live that doesn't revolve around her. At that point she'll either commit to making you her #1 priority or she'll move on too. Either way, it's a better situation than where you're at right now.
 

Ambition Now

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Yes, thats what i am doing now, but the problem is that she does not makes me her #1 priority, neither move on...
Ive tried to LJBF her, but didnt worked right, we came back having sex some time after that.
The problem is that she is an attention wh0re, she is losing interest in me but dont want to lose my attention.
Do you think i should say to her f*ck herself and stop f*ckin calling me?
 

WC2

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Do not keep this BS friendship. It's not a real friendship as any experienced man will tell you. Real friendships consist of those who tell you the honest truth no matter how you'll react. Her "friendship" with you is a huge lie. She wants to keep you around as a "friend" just in case she doesn't find something better.

At this point, you have 2 options. Buy into her ridiculous proposal at more friendship and less sex, or just stop contacting her.

Stop contacting her.

This will not only help you get over this woman quicker, but it will also give you the chance to start talking to others. Chances are she will be a little upset and start inching back towards you, although this is not the goal! The goal is to rebuild yourself into a single sturdy male. This is why she will come back. And by this time, hopefully you will be the the one telling her that you just "want to be friends", because after all this girl threw you out like trash when you were down; no reason you shouldn't do the same to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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