"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Advices on moving on

Ambition Now

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Hi everybody, ive been dating a girl for about 1 year, but she is not my girlfriend, i date other girls and she dates other guys but friendship was always good.
Recently she started lose some interest, but always trying to keep the friendship, ive acted a little passive in some situations ive got pissed with her in the past (nothing too serious), but now i am becoming everytime more pissed with her with every little thing she does (passive agressive problem...).
I feel like i need to move on, since sex slowing down and she is losing interest, but she is always working to keep the friendship.
I will move on for sure, but dont know how to do it, do you guys think i should keep the friendship? I feel its kind of hard because a have some feelings for her (not in an oneitis level, but i do).
Whats is the best way to do it? Tell her i am moving on and quit fiendship too or just move on and dont say anything (ive tried it before, but she keeps calling me and saying i am acting distant and weird)?
Thank you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AKA FLEX

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Just start dating/banging other chicks. If she whines about you being "distant," tell her you've got a life to live that doesn't revolve around her. At that point she'll either commit to making you her #1 priority or she'll move on too. Either way, it's a better situation than where you're at right now.
 

Ambition Now

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Yes, thats what i am doing now, but the problem is that she does not makes me her #1 priority, neither move on...
Ive tried to LJBF her, but didnt worked right, we came back having sex some time after that.
The problem is that she is an attention wh0re, she is losing interest in me but dont want to lose my attention.
Do you think i should say to her f*ck herself and stop f*ckin calling me?
 

WC2

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Do not keep this BS friendship. It's not a real friendship as any experienced man will tell you. Real friendships consist of those who tell you the honest truth no matter how you'll react. Her "friendship" with you is a huge lie. She wants to keep you around as a "friend" just in case she doesn't find something better.

At this point, you have 2 options. Buy into her ridiculous proposal at more friendship and less sex, or just stop contacting her.

Stop contacting her.

This will not only help you get over this woman quicker, but it will also give you the chance to start talking to others. Chances are she will be a little upset and start inching back towards you, although this is not the goal! The goal is to rebuild yourself into a single sturdy male. This is why she will come back. And by this time, hopefully you will be the the one telling her that you just "want to be friends", because after all this girl threw you out like trash when you were down; no reason you shouldn't do the same to her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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