Advice

[Calibuck]

I took this girl out 33 a few nights ago and asked her out for another date. She accepted but since the first date she's pretty much stopped texting me. I did sound a little eager after the first date but haven't contact her in 3 days.

I'm going to setup in stone the 2nd date later this week but should i text her something in between? Im pretty sure shes also seeing other guys.

 

[Calibuck]

Sounds like a plan.

 

[Mr Wright]

First thing, if she hasn't text you after the date, you're not in the strongest position. A strong rule of thumb is that girls who are interested text you first to say they had a good time etc, they probably won't ask you out themselves but it's their way of inviting you to ask them out again.

Since she has agreed to a second date, I would just go in assuming that she's coming and that way anything she does to the contrary is a sign of disinterest. Send her text inviting her out and just remember the proof is always in the pudding.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

"Great talking to you, I'll see you [whatever day] at [whatever place], but i gotta run! Bye."

Ruler now starting to sound like Corey Wayne too But it's true.

 

[Poon King]

Never analyze women you are not sleeping with.

There are two types of women:

1. Women you're sleeping with
2. Women you're not

If she falls into #2 then nothing she does really matters until she falls into #1. As a man your only job is to flirt with women you want to sleep with. After such flirting, the woman should then FOLLOW YOUR LEAD until you end up in bed with her. If the woman does not follow your lead she is forgotten quickly and replaced by someone who does. No need to analyze. Not worth it.

 

[Calibuck]

Thanks Experts

I just changed my photo on Tinder, Do you think this will help?