"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Advice with girl from out of town

dronkitto

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Hi Guys!

I've been chatting with this girl from out of town for awhile, flirting a bit, leaving little hints, etc., all smileys and good vibes. She's coming to my town for a concert and told her to come stay a few days at my home, to which she says OK (but she's coming with a girl friend or two). That was the plan, but on a rainy afternoon I casually told her it's a nice afternoon to take a nap together, then she says "I already have someone to do that with". I ask her what she means, but she wouldn't say. Do you think she's bluffing, testing, just lying cause she wants a place to stay but no sex, or maybe she does have a BF (or GF?) and I should invite her and game her anyway? Or just forget her and let her find her own place to sleep?

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mantis Toboggan

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I don't know, buddy. Maybe you should send her some more smileys and texts. That always gets them wet, right?
 

dronkitto

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Mantis Toboggan said:
I don't know, buddy. Maybe you should send her some more smileys and texts. That always gets them wet, right?
heh-heh

like there's anything else I can do at a distance
 

Jair213

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dronkitto said:
heh-heh

like there's anything else I can do at a distance
you talk a bit, set up the meet, and wait. then wen the day is close u text her again to kinda remind her.



then smash.
 
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