"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice with girl from out of town

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dronkitto

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Hi Guys!

I've been chatting with this girl from out of town for awhile, flirting a bit, leaving little hints, etc., all smileys and good vibes. She's coming to my town for a concert and told her to come stay a few days at my home, to which she says OK (but she's coming with a girl friend or two). That was the plan, but on a rainy afternoon I casually told her it's a nice afternoon to take a nap together, then she says "I already have someone to do that with". I ask her what she means, but she wouldn't say. Do you think she's bluffing, testing, just lying cause she wants a place to stay but no sex, or maybe she does have a BF (or GF?) and I should invite her and game her anyway? Or just forget her and let her find her own place to sleep?

Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mantis Toboggan

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I don't know, buddy. Maybe you should send her some more smileys and texts. That always gets them wet, right?
 
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Mantis Toboggan said:
I don't know, buddy. Maybe you should send her some more smileys and texts. That always gets them wet, right?
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heh-heh

like there's anything else I can do at a distance
 
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dronkitto said:
heh-heh

like there's anything else I can do at a distance
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you talk a bit, set up the meet, and wait. then wen the day is close u text her again to kinda remind her.



then smash.
 
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