"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Advice what should I text girl in beginning of week to setup date?

marmel75

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Yes I have I am just trying to figure out a routine to use with every woman so I can rinse repeat etc..
Dude, I just gave it to you twice. As Maximus says "Why come here and ask for advice if you get it and then don't follow it"??

Why do you believe you need to "trick" a woman into going out with you or come up with some stupid ass routine to use?? Do you realize that most woman enjoy fvcking more than guys do?? Instead of worrying about some routine to learn or some way to "trick" them into going out with you, you should be working on becoming a man they want to Fvck. That's the bottom line. If you were a man they wanted to Fvck you would have no issues getting them out with you.

You send a few BS texts then "I wanted to meet up for a drink sometime this week, what's your schedule looking like?" Or "what nights are you free to do that?" That's it. No trickery needed. If they are interested in you they will meet you. If they aren't it doesn't matter how much trickery you try and use nothing is going to work. Get that through your head.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
 

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I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
Dude, you can't be serious. Please tell me you are joking.
 

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I'm pretty sure NSX-R was being sarcastic...

But sometimes men, especially those who are still learning, MIGHT actually believe parts of it. Be more clear with the sarcasm mate, I too thought you were being serious for most of your post >___>
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
haha that's the best advise I ever heard. I tried that last night and the woman said I was too good to date but was perfect to be her best friend.. Wowzers.. I got a new friend who can spill all her secrets to me and tell me about the s3x she is having with all of the men who treat her like a toilet.... I'm sosuave!
 

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I was in the process of texting my life story, but apparently she blocked my number. Do I just start e-mailing her where I left off? How does this work? Please advise. I really want her to like me.
 

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haha that's the best advise I ever heard. I tried that last night and the woman said I was too good to date but was perfect to be her best friend.. Wowzers.. I got a new friend who can spill all her secrets to me and tell me about the s3x she is having with all of the men who treat her like a toilet.... I'm sosuave!
Isn't it amazing?
 

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I was in the process of texting my life story, but apparently she blocked my number. Do I just start e-mailing her where I left off? How does this work? Please advise. I really want her to like me.
I would try to contact her through Myspace . You know chicks and social media is like one. I would also try to get her address to send her some chocolates and flowers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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okay point is can I just do hey hows it going? I mean you probably shouldnt do that every week. but I mean I can do it the first time? then have her guess my name. What would you do after that?
 

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okay point is can I just do hey hows it going? I mean you probably shouldnt do that every week. but I mean I can do it the first time? then have her guess my name. What would you do after that?
Women will abuse any wriggle room you give them. Keep it simple:

You: Hi xxx, S4D here. Have anything fun (possibly illegal) lined up for the week ahead?
HB: Hi :) blahblahblah
You: Well, I'm free on xxx. Let's meet for a drink.
HB: Yes/No/My grandma is on fire I cant make it.

Simple, straight to the point. It's very hard for the girl to throw you BS curveballs if you keep it simple.
 

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Women will abuse any wriggle room you give them. Keep it simple:

You: Hi xxx, S4D here. Have anything fun (possibly illegal) lined up for the week ahead?
HB: Hi :) blahblahblah
You: Well, I'm free on xxx. Let's meet for a drink.
HB: Yes/No/My grandma is on fire I cant make it.

Simple, straight to the point. It's very hard for the girl to throw you BS curveballs if you keep it simple.
haha grandma is on fire lmao That's almost as good as "I have to take my goldfish for a walk"
 

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Just call her up and ask her out.

Asking for a date via text has a lot more tension being built up on your end. You are at the mercy of her response. Plus, when you say something stupid there is written evidence of it.
 
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Okay I was told you need to text a little bit first do you need to or no? I can just text what you put and thats fine?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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