"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice what should I text girl in beginning of week to setup date?

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Shootin4Dreams said:
Yes I have I am just trying to figure out a routine to use with every woman so I can rinse repeat etc..
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Dude, I just gave it to you twice. As Maximus says "Why come here and ask for advice if you get it and then don't follow it"??

Why do you believe you need to "trick" a woman into going out with you or come up with some stupid ass routine to use?? Do you realize that most woman enjoy fvcking more than guys do?? Instead of worrying about some routine to learn or some way to "trick" them into going out with you, you should be working on becoming a man they want to Fvck. That's the bottom line. If you were a man they wanted to Fvck you would have no issues getting them out with you.

You send a few BS texts then "I wanted to meet up for a drink sometime this week, what's your schedule looking like?" Or "what nights are you free to do that?" That's it. No trickery needed. If they are interested in you they will meet you. If they aren't it doesn't matter how much trickery you try and use nothing is going to work. Get that through your head.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
 
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I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
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Dude, you can't be serious. Please tell me you are joking.
 
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I'm pretty sure NSX-R was being sarcastic...

But sometimes men, especially those who are still learning, MIGHT actually believe parts of it. Be more clear with the sarcasm mate, I too thought you were being serious for most of your post >___>
 

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NSX-R said:
I usually start with my life story. You know getting her to know that i'm a good guy.
Then i ask about her life story. It's important to know what kind of chick she is.
If you want to make it 100% success into a date write her in every sentence , how beautifull she is,how sweet she is and confess your feelings about her ,that you might love her.It's important to make her know that you might want her.
If you follow all these steps then ask her out. If something goes wrong ,call a nuclear physicist.It might be also hard for him to help you but have faith.
Good luck .
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haha that's the best advise I ever heard. I tried that last night and the woman said I was too good to date but was perfect to be her best friend.. Wowzers.. I got a new friend who can spill all her secrets to me and tell me about the s3x she is having with all of the men who treat her like a toilet.... I'm sosuave!
 
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I was in the process of texting my life story, but apparently she blocked my number. Do I just start e-mailing her where I left off? How does this work? Please advise. I really want her to like me.
 
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haha that's the best advise I ever heard. I tried that last night and the woman said I was too good to date but was perfect to be her best friend.. Wowzers.. I got a new friend who can spill all her secrets to me and tell me about the s3x she is having with all of the men who treat her like a toilet.... I'm sosuave!
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Isn't it amazing?
 
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I was in the process of texting my life story, but apparently she blocked my number. Do I just start e-mailing her where I left off? How does this work? Please advise. I really want her to like me.
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I would try to contact her through Myspace . You know chicks and social media is like one. I would also try to get her address to send her some chocolates and flowers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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okay point is can I just do hey hows it going? I mean you probably shouldnt do that every week. but I mean I can do it the first time? then have her guess my name. What would you do after that?
 
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Shootin4Dreams said:
okay point is can I just do hey hows it going? I mean you probably shouldnt do that every week. but I mean I can do it the first time? then have her guess my name. What would you do after that?
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Women will abuse any wriggle room you give them. Keep it simple:

You: Hi xxx, S4D here. Have anything fun (possibly illegal) lined up for the week ahead?
HB: Hi :) blahblahblah
You: Well, I'm free on xxx. Let's meet for a drink.
HB: Yes/No/My grandma is on fire I cant make it.

Simple, straight to the point. It's very hard for the girl to throw you BS curveballs if you keep it simple.
 
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Women will abuse any wriggle room you give them. Keep it simple:

You: Hi xxx, S4D here. Have anything fun (possibly illegal) lined up for the week ahead?
HB: Hi :) blahblahblah
You: Well, I'm free on xxx. Let's meet for a drink.
HB: Yes/No/My grandma is on fire I cant make it.

Simple, straight to the point. It's very hard for the girl to throw you BS curveballs if you keep it simple.
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haha grandma is on fire lmao That's almost as good as "I have to take my goldfish for a walk"
 
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Just call her up and ask her out.

Asking for a date via text has a lot more tension being built up on your end. You are at the mercy of her response. Plus, when you say something stupid there is written evidence of it.
 
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Okay I was told you need to text a little bit first do you need to or no? I can just text what you put and thats fine?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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