"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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You need to know where to start. I'm telling you that you have to re-learn social interactions completely because this shouldn't be awkward, you shouldn't have given her your number, and you shouldn't have a feeling she doesn't like you.

Read the Bible.
 
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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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Your problem is right there. You're doubting that she likes you, and are worrying over this. DONT DO THIS. Always assume that the chick is into you and wants you. Your game will improve greatly if you just change your mindset to a "ohh I know this chick fvcking wants me".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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bball is useless
 
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