"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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You need to know where to start. I'm telling you that you have to re-learn social interactions completely because this shouldn't be awkward, you shouldn't have given her your number, and you shouldn't have a feeling she doesn't like you.

Read the Bible.
 
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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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Your problem is right there. You're doubting that she likes you, and are worrying over this. DONT DO THIS. Always assume that the chick is into you and wants you. Your game will improve greatly if you just change your mindset to a "ohh I know this chick fvcking wants me".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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bball is useless
 
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