Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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You need to know where to start. I'm telling you that you have to re-learn social interactions completely because this shouldn't be awkward, you shouldn't have given her your number, and you shouldn't have a feeling she doesn't like you.

Read the Bible.
 
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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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Your problem is right there. You're doubting that she likes you, and are worrying over this. DONT DO THIS. Always assume that the chick is into you and wants you. Your game will improve greatly if you just change your mindset to a "ohh I know this chick fvcking wants me".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bballplayer3 said:
im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
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bball is useless
 
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