You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You need to know where to start. I'm telling you that you have to re-learn social interactions completely because this shouldn't be awkward, you shouldn't have given her your number, and you shouldn't have a feeling she doesn't like you.bballplayer3 said:im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
Your problem is right there. You're doubting that she likes you, and are worrying over this. DONT DO THIS. Always assume that the chick is into you and wants you. Your game will improve greatly if you just change your mindset to a "ohh I know this chick fvcking wants me".bballplayer3 said:im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
bball is uselessbballplayer3 said:im pretty good friends with this girl that i know. She plays bball like me and we talk about it sometimes. I have her number since were pretty good friends. I just feel weird or awkward when trying to talk to her because i have a feeling she may not like me. What can i do to become better friends and maybe even hooking up with her?