"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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advice plz!

Mr.Freestyler19

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it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug ;) ...,how can i take advantage of this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pipe007

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question 1... its ok to be considered a player... take it as an advantage... you are single you can do whatever the hell you want.

question 2. see question number 1
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug ;) ...,how can i take advantage of this?
Theres nothin wrong with being called a player lol. Heck I take that as a good thing and like it when people call me that. Why would you NOT want to be known as a player?

And girls will naturally become more attracted to you if they see you around other girls, so just game up all of them.
 

Mr.Freestyler19

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kk thnks for those words...i dont want to b known as the player but everything is cool now i just misinterpreted the situation
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
kk thnks for those words...i dont want to b known as the player but everything is cool now i just misinterpreted the situation
WHy dont you want to be known as a player?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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cuz its not me and i hav seen many guys miss chances with girls just cuz someone said their a player
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
cuz its not me and i hav seen many guys miss chances with girls just cuz someone said their a player
I doubt those guys missed chances just because some people were calling them players. They probably screwed up in their game or had afc tendencies, because theres not a girl I know that would automatically "disqualify" a guy simply because hes labeled as a player.

And as long as you go around flirting with different girls and getting with different girls, people may label you as a player. Like I said before, theres nothing wrong with that, and you shouldnt put a bad label on it. Most of the people that call you a player are actually jealous of you because you're the one getting all the action and not them. And stop stressing over what others think of you, a true DJ doesnt let the opinions of others get to his head.
 

Mr.Freestyler19

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now i dont care no more..2 months ago i didnt have a chance with any girl.......nor did i hav girl-friends....now i feel like a rising superstar.....in two months i made more girl-friends than i had in my whole life...
 
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