Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
...,how can i take advantage of this?You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Theres nothin wrong with being called a player lol. Heck I take that as a good thing and like it when people call me that. Why would you NOT want to be known as a player?Mr.Freestyler19 said:it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug
WHy dont you want to be known as a player?Mr.Freestyler19 said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I doubt those guys missed chances just because some people were calling them players. They probably screwed up in their game or had afc tendencies, because theres not a girl I know that would automatically "disqualify" a guy simply because hes labeled as a player.Mr.Freestyler19 said: