"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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advice plz!

Mr.Freestyler19

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it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug ;) ...,how can i take advantage of this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pipe007

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question 1... its ok to be considered a player... take it as an advantage... you are single you can do whatever the hell you want.

question 2. see question number 1
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug ;) ...,how can i take advantage of this?
Theres nothin wrong with being called a player lol. Heck I take that as a good thing and like it when people call me that. Why would you NOT want to be known as a player?

And girls will naturally become more attracted to you if they see you around other girls, so just game up all of them.
 

Mr.Freestyler19

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kk thnks for those words...i dont want to b known as the player but everything is cool now i just misinterpreted the situation
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
kk thnks for those words...i dont want to b known as the player but everything is cool now i just misinterpreted the situation
WHy dont you want to be known as a player?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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cuz its not me and i hav seen many guys miss chances with girls just cuz someone said their a player
 

eaglez1177

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Mr.Freestyler19 said:
cuz its not me and i hav seen many guys miss chances with girls just cuz someone said their a player
I doubt those guys missed chances just because some people were calling them players. They probably screwed up in their game or had afc tendencies, because theres not a girl I know that would automatically "disqualify" a guy simply because hes labeled as a player.

And as long as you go around flirting with different girls and getting with different girls, people may label you as a player. Like I said before, theres nothing wrong with that, and you shouldnt put a bad label on it. Most of the people that call you a player are actually jealous of you because you're the one getting all the action and not them. And stop stressing over what others think of you, a true DJ doesnt let the opinions of others get to his head.
 

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now i dont care no more..2 months ago i didnt have a chance with any girl.......nor did i hav girl-friends....now i feel like a rising superstar.....in two months i made more girl-friends than i had in my whole life...
 
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