You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
...,how can i take advantage of this?When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Theres nothin wrong with being called a player lol. Heck I take that as a good thing and like it when people call me that. Why would you NOT want to be known as a player?Mr.Freestyler19 said:it seems tht since i started to talk to girls and flirt with them some guys and girls r tagging me as a player....how can i overcame this?........i hav also seem how when i was hanging out with this cute girl after school. other girls notice me more and check me out after she left and gave me a really nice hug
WHy dont you want to be known as a player?Mr.Freestyler19 said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I doubt those guys missed chances just because some people were calling them players. They probably screwed up in their game or had afc tendencies, because theres not a girl I know that would automatically "disqualify" a guy simply because hes labeled as a player.Mr.Freestyler19 said: