"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nick1886

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Ok here's a quickie.

Basically there's this girl that I would bang but don't want to go out with at school. She's quite innocent, don't know if she's a virgin but she's never had a boyfriend - im pretty sure I could only seal the deal after several months in a relationship. She's really into me and I don't feel the same but it's there if I want it, which I do.

What should I do? I'm tempted to say **** it I can do better but reading all you guys' journals some people settle for sex with girls below your batting average. Don't really want things to get messy and get a bad rep tbh
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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apocolipto

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Ask yourself if your fine with it.If you have any doubt, no.
 
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If anything, it's good experience.

I know of guys that never settle, and have thus never been laid.

There are also guys that settle too much and have a bad reb.

Find your balance.
 
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Hooking up with an ugly girl will make you a non-option to hot girls that know her. I've been shut out of a social circle entirely after having sex with their unattractive friend. I do occasionally do it with girls below my standard, but they are completely separate from any other options, and cant tell anyone that matters (so same school might be a bad idea).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When I say below my average I bat at 8 and she's a 6.5/7 with a huge ass but yeah I might just wait for a party to try the hook-up because I really cant be ****ed to do this boyfriend **** even though thats probably the best way. Sorry for my indecision but I have two 9s in play (also at school) that I dont want to compromise even though I need a bonk
 
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