"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice please fellas

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Nick1886

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Ok here's a quickie.

Basically there's this girl that I would bang but don't want to go out with at school. She's quite innocent, don't know if she's a virgin but she's never had a boyfriend - im pretty sure I could only seal the deal after several months in a relationship. She's really into me and I don't feel the same but it's there if I want it, which I do.

What should I do? I'm tempted to say **** it I can do better but reading all you guys' journals some people settle for sex with girls below your batting average. Don't really want things to get messy and get a bad rep tbh
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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apocolipto

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Ask yourself if your fine with it.If you have any doubt, no.
 
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AlexLefty

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If anything, it's good experience.

I know of guys that never settle, and have thus never been laid.

There are also guys that settle too much and have a bad reb.

Find your balance.
 
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LearningSlowly

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Hooking up with an ugly girl will make you a non-option to hot girls that know her. I've been shut out of a social circle entirely after having sex with their unattractive friend. I do occasionally do it with girls below my standard, but they are completely separate from any other options, and cant tell anyone that matters (so same school might be a bad idea).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nick1886

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When I say below my average I bat at 8 and she's a 6.5/7 with a huge ass but yeah I might just wait for a party to try the hook-up because I really cant be ****ed to do this boyfriend **** even though thats probably the best way. Sorry for my indecision but I have two 9s in play (also at school) that I dont want to compromise even though I need a bonk
 
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