"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice please fellas

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Nick1886

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Ok here's a quickie.

Basically there's this girl that I would bang but don't want to go out with at school. She's quite innocent, don't know if she's a virgin but she's never had a boyfriend - im pretty sure I could only seal the deal after several months in a relationship. She's really into me and I don't feel the same but it's there if I want it, which I do.

What should I do? I'm tempted to say **** it I can do better but reading all you guys' journals some people settle for sex with girls below your batting average. Don't really want things to get messy and get a bad rep tbh
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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apocolipto

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Ask yourself if your fine with it.If you have any doubt, no.
 
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AlexLefty

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If anything, it's good experience.

I know of guys that never settle, and have thus never been laid.

There are also guys that settle too much and have a bad reb.

Find your balance.
 
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LearningSlowly

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Hooking up with an ugly girl will make you a non-option to hot girls that know her. I've been shut out of a social circle entirely after having sex with their unattractive friend. I do occasionally do it with girls below my standard, but they are completely separate from any other options, and cant tell anyone that matters (so same school might be a bad idea).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nick1886

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When I say below my average I bat at 8 and she's a 6.5/7 with a huge ass but yeah I might just wait for a party to try the hook-up because I really cant be ****ed to do this boyfriend **** even though thats probably the best way. Sorry for my indecision but I have two 9s in play (also at school) that I dont want to compromise even though I need a bonk
 
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